The benefits of living in Spain – why we’re staying

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Over the past few weeks, the tune of Should I stay or should I go from The Clash keeps reverberating through my head.  We’ve been here in our beautiful house in Andalucia since September 2019, with the plan of just staying for one year.  

But it’s crunch time now, as we have to decide whether or not to let out our house in the UK for a further year.  And so The Clash lyrics are a very appropriate backdrop to our thinking, and actually the decision wasn’t very difficult – read on!

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Effect of lockdown

It had been our intention for our one year in Spain to travel and see as much of the country as we could.  The plan was to go away for a few days each month to explore – but so far we have only managed to go to Cadiz, Sevilla, Cordoba and Madrid.  Great places, all four, but it certainly doesn’t add up to a big explore once a month, due mainly to Covid 19. 

Just before the lockdown, we’d planned on a two-day trip to Extramadura province, with beautiful castles, whitewashed towns and wonderful nature, but that had to be postponed.  And there’s still a lot more we want to see and we simply haven’t got round to because of the lockdown.  We need more time …

Visitors

We always love having people stay with us in Spain, as it is so very beautiful, and so very different from the UK and Holland where most of our friends and family are from.  It’s such a relaxing experience, because the pace of life is slower, the scenery is awesome, and there’s just something very laid back about it all. 

The big difference is that people stay for a few days, so you have more time together to explore, cook, eat, drink, talk, listen to music, play games, and simply to be.  There’s nothing like cooking a meal together and eating it late at night when the weather is a bit cooler on the terrace, accompanied by a very nice (though not expensive) bottle of Rioja.  But most of our visitors this year have had to cancel  – or postpone I should say – and that means next year will be the year for having lots of lovely people staying.   And so we need more time …

Creating a home and garden

The garden we inherited on arrival is slowing being transformed by Hilary, the green fingered man of the house.  It’s all still work in progress though, and needs more attention, more watering, more re-planting, more rabbit-protecting, more nurturing.  And we’re also doing a lot of painting and decorating in the house, so it’s shaping up nicely.  But there’s much more to do, and so we need more time ….

Another big factor in creating a home has been the arrival of two lovely kittens, Maya and Miguel. Aptly named after a TV series in the US about a Spanish speaking US family, where the girl Maya is adventurous and risk-taking and the boy Miguel is more timid and cautious – the character of our two kittens to a tee.  Though there has been a name change since then, as Miguel turned out to be a Miguela when we visited the vet! 

The kittens have made our lovely house much more into a home – despite the inevitable climbing of curtains and scratching of chairs.  If we go back to the UK, of course we would take them with us.  But we have such a great garden and lots of olive groves here for them to enjoy, so we feel they need more time …

Working from home

Both Hilary and I are freelancers, and wanted to continue to work, although we were concerned about the ability to work from the middle of Andalucia.  This has turned out not to be an issue, partially thanks to the increase in and acceptance of remote working.  And the technology works well.  We have great wifi here, and even though there is sometimes a short electricity wobble, it’s pretty good on the whole. 

The increased opportunities to provide and attend training courses with Zoom, Skype or Teams have also created an environment that is conducive to work.  Because if COVID 19 has made one thing clear, it’s that working is so much more enjoyable in beautiful Andalucia. And we’re having air-conditioning installed in our sitting room that’s also my study, as the summers are so very hot.  To get the most out of this lovely cool air, we will need more time …

Friendships

Since our arrival in September, we’ve slowly started to build connections, and we now have some really good friends here – Spanish and non-Spanish – we are beginning to feel part of the community.  I continue to struggle with Spanish, and I still worry about picking up the phone and going to the doctor or dentist in a language that I’m very far from fluent in.  But to continue to learn is important, and one year simply isn’t enough.  We need more time …

And the decision is …

No question, we are staying.  We don’t know how long for, but at least another year – to enjoy this beautiful country, the friendships, the climate, the garden, the house, and the cats!  And in any case, it would have been foolish to go back now, because the registration admin to move to a different country has been a Herculean task.  To go through all of that, and then to reverse the process just after a few months would seem crazy.  And now, we have the time!


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  • Janet

    22 Jul. 2022

    Prachtig besluit Marijke! Ik kan t me helemaal voorstellen. Zo’n verhuizing is een enorme onderneming, en dat heb je nu net lekker onder de knie, en veel dingen hebben tijd nodig. Het is natuurlijk een heel bijzondere tijd geweest om daar tijdens lockdown te zijn, maar ik denk echt dat er verandering zal komen, of dat er nieuwe manieren komen om met Covid om te gaan zodat je wat meer van die uitstapjes kunt maken, en wat meer bezoekers kunt ontvangen ….. all in all, goed besluit 🙂
  • Marijke

    22 Jul. 2022

    Leuk, jouw reactie, Janet! We gaan ervoor!
  • Sarah Colquhoun

    22 Jul. 2022

    Stay……you’re much better off in Spain than the UK….we bought a little holiday house in Valencia last autumn too but due to covid haven’t been put since February…..we couldn’t move to Spain now due to school/work commitments but if we could…..we’d be there tomorrow! A much better quality of life and sense of community…..and yes economically tough right now but life isn’t measured in economic factors only……
  • dawn at kyero.com

    22 Jul. 2022

    Hello Sarah, Thank you for your positive comments to Marijke, we have passed these on. Congratulations on the purchase of your dream holiday home in Valencia.
  • isabelle Gennotte

    22 Jul. 2022

    je voudrais aussi vivre mon rêve et j’y arriverai ! il y a juste les finances qui me bloquent…j’étudie les possibilités. merci pour le témoignage rassurant. isabelle.
  • dawn at kyero.com

    22 Jul. 2022

    Bonjour Isabelle, Merci d’avoir lu le blog de Marijkes. Vos commentaires ont été transmis. Nous espérons que vous trouverez bientôt la propriété de vos rêves. Si vous avez besoin d’aide, veuillez contacter
  • Audrey Curtis

    22 Jul. 2022

    I am to old to do it now. 80 but I still look at homes in spain and wish i had moved if I had my time again I would have gone. You have a home in England you have a bolt hole what do you have to lose . Another year in spain to make your mind up . Good luck for your future which ever way you choose GOOD LUCK Audrey
  • dawn at kyero.com

    22 Jul. 2022

    Hello Audrey, Thank you for your comments on Marijkes’ blogg, we have passed these on. You may also find our podcasts very interesting to listen to: You know what they say you are never to old! Again thank you for your positive comments.
  • Jane Tyrrell

    22 Jul. 2022

    Very interesting to read. I am in English but moved to Brussels then the Netherlands where I have lived and worked happily. However, although I am 68 , fit, I decided to work as a Consultant. I too am considering to buy a home in Spain , so all the feedback was very valuable. I would like to continue read the blogs. Jane
  • dawn at kyero.com

    22 Jul. 2022

    Hello Jane, Thank you for your comments on Marijkes’ blog. Please check every other week and you will find more. You may also find our podcasts very interesting to listen to: . Happy reading and listening.
  • Stephen

    16 Apr. 2023

    I think the main thing for UK residents is to keep your main residence in the UK , or at least an apartment as you always have it to return to and with UK house prices solid it’s a good investment. The healthcare in the UK is really excellent and especially when older or one partner dies it’s not ideal to be stranded in a foreign country far away from family and friends. About 25 years ago it was thought by some to sell up in the UK and move to France where property was and still is very cheap. Now however those same expats are older and cannot afford to return to the UK as property is much more expensive than in France and they are left with an overseas property that they can’t sell. So if you want a fling in Spain rent your UK property out and rent also in Spain where rents are very much cheaper is my advice/ experience.

  • Admin

    27 Apr. 2023

    Hello Stephen, Thanks for your insight and input! We appreciate you sharing this with the community!

  • Jenny Mckenzie

    30 Apr. 2023

    Hello, As a Canadian citizen is it possible to buy a home in Spain for full-time retirement? I have read that you are only permitted for 180 days and then you must leave for the other 180 days. We love Spain, and every year that we visit, we wish we did not have to return to the rains of British Columbia, Canada. Your insight would be much appreciated. Thank you In advance Jen

  • Admin

    03 May. 2023

    Hi Jenny, thanks for your comment. We recommend checking out the article we have on the Spanish non-profit residence visa (https://www.kyero.com/en/advice/spain/moving-to-spain/visas/is-the-spanish-non-profit-residence-visa-a-good-option-for-retirees-moving-to-spain). We would also recommend contacting the Spanish Consulate in Canada as they are able to advise on visa options and regulations. Good luck finding your sunshine!

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